KANAE
264Japanese proverb ことわざ

会うは別れの始め

Au wa wakare no hajime

“To meet is to begin to part.”

The meaning

Every meeting carries its ending — not to darken it, but to give it its worth. We love better what we know we cannot keep forever.

At the origin

A classic proverb on the passing nature of bonds.

The characters

  1. 会う auto meet
  2. watopic marker
  3. 別れ
  4. 始め

The complete word-by-word reading, in KANAE.

ParticleMarks the topic: what the sentence is about — “as for…”.

In practice

Treat those close to you as passing guests: with all the more regard.

Themes

Similar proverbs

See also